There is no two ways about it, the effect a break up has on people's lives is devastating and extremely worrying. It hurts, you get depressed, and your heart does actually ache, some people become constantly sick, lose weight, place weight, and eat up all kinds of vices to numb the pain or lock themselves throughout their homes to escape the cruel world out there!

"Add to that particular the emotional logistics concerning who spends holidays and vacations where, what roles people play…