Spend some time exploring the cities. My wife and I met while walking around limsa, and WOW TBC Gold now we're in a relationship as well... Even if you're not looking for RP or anything like there will be people who simply enjoy playing music and dancing or who ask for help, or simply say "wanna meet my horse?" (Moi is a good example.) Although 14 might be my first MMO however, I'm here to keep playing.
I was exactly like that during the first two days of playing WoW. Though I had my WoW-mind filled with blast blast blast blasting fast, fast and fast I was tired and was in the right spot just at the right time. Now I usually have my last few minutes on the internet walking around Limsa and looking at the cute looks and enjoying the ambience. I've heard that weekends are packed with events so it's worth a consider it!
I'm okay if continue to stare at the awesome gear sets and mounts. However, that's not all it is anymore. Things were more vibrant in cata than before. There was a lot of people within the city. People used to chat or play with their toys. The silence is now replaced by naked goblins trying to get people to make death rolls.
This is everything I ever was looking for in any MMO I've played. It's exactly what I was looking for in WoW. There's no interaction between people and there's not a community. I wanted to play MMOs to build community, but they always fall short. Although I am only 18 years old, I've never yet left my home town, however I am very excited. I cannot wait to see the major cities filled with a lot of people.
The first 20 minutes of the game, i went to the concert of Ul adventure guild. it really impressed me. now i know it is likely a bards-run program (1 month later) I'm not concerned the fact that it was awesome. I also went to a random queen concert in Gridania where 3 bards stood for 1 hours playing queen songs. It was amazing.
This is certainly something FFXIV excels at. If I don't feel like playing the game and do not want it to end and I'm at dinner and waiting to get back into cheap Burning Crusade Classic Gold a queue again I'll head to Limsa since there's always something happening.